Why wont my ex block me

She ignores my text! She doesn't want to block me even if I pleaded her to do so! !! She found someone else! She doesn't want me anymore! So why won't she block me??????? I'm so hurt!!!! Pls help me!!!

#2

7 years ago

This is only 2015. Us older generation don't know the word block. Nor do we know this to be protocol at a prom or whatnot.

What ex is not saying, is being spoken in volumes here.

You see, in the early days, there was no such thing as, social media, cell phone, or phone.

You simply had to tell your partner, or else...said the whole town.

#3

ParanoidGirl

7 years ago

After much pleading with her and literally bombarded her cell with texts, she finally came to an agreement and blocked me right after she "ok fine." Without even wishing me good luck or whatsoever.

I know this may seem really immature but this is the only way I could stop myself from reaching out to her. Now I texted her on fb asking her to block me there as well. As for instagram I deleted the whole thing because I didn't want to look at her stuff no more..

She hasn't blocked me on fb yet and I don't know why.. I wish she could do it sooner. Sigh.

I hate letting the person I love go. I'm so depressed and I drink until I get a hangover the morning after.. I lost my appetite.. lost my will to do anything. . All I want to do is just sit home, shut off the lights and cry somemore..

I was also wondering if anyone has the same experience like me? Whereby u need an ex to actually block u in order for u to move on..

#4

ParanoidGirl

7 years ago

#5

7 years ago

I blocked my ex from contacting me after he dumped me also, so I understand. She likes you pleading and begging. Shes probably showing her new bf your text and they are laughing at you.

Are you guys a same sex couple?

#6

7 years ago

why do you need her to block you? delete her from your end or block her

#7

7 years ago

No. And you don't really need it either; you would just prefer it. You can block HER on FB. I don't know why she doesn't want to block you on social media but you aren't entitled to it.

#8

ParanoidGirl

7 years ago

@gettingoverhim

Yes we are a same sex couple.. my ex is a tomboy. She said she only likes this other person but that don't mean she wants to be with her. This happened twice. Before this when we broke up she also told me the same thing. Then she came back.. and we tried it out.. and then this happens, AGAIN. I'm so crushed..

@howie

I can't block her on my end because I know I'd eventually unblock her and creep to look at her profile.. that is why I need her to do it.

@banshee

I checked fb again and she hasn't blocked me.. I really don't dare to go on instagram anymore.. I'm so haunted

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#9

7 years ago

Shes a serial cheater! I would have blocked her immediately. What do you mean you dont have the heart to, are you s glutten for punushment?

This tomboy is walking all over you, instead of you feeling humiliated by going on Instagram . You should feel humiliated that she keeps dumping you everytime she meets someone else shes attracted to. You must not really love yourself if you continue to allow her to treat you like **** and you still want her. Thats very sad to me

#10

ParanoidGirl

7 years ago

@gettingoverhim

Wow.. I loved that you said she is a serial cheater. I know and I really don't love myself to be treated this way. But I really love her and it's so hard for me to let her go.

Im having a hard time accepting the rejection and also forgetting the memories that were once so sweet a long time ago.

#11

7 years ago

Those good memories from long ago will fade when you cut contact with her and clear your mind, the onky thing you will remember is how she cheated on you and dumped you multiple times. My ex and I had alot of great memories also, but I cant remember any of them. all I remember is him dumping me and the excruciating pain that he caused me, nothing else. Trust me that will make you get over a person real fast

#12

ParanoidGirl

7 years ago

@gettingoverhim

So you're saying to just focus on the bad things rather than the good ones then? Sometimes it's hard becuz they automatically pop into your mind ☹️

But do u mind me asking or are there any links to your story?

#13

7 years ago

Trust me hon when you cut all contact with her, your mind will become clear and you will start to reflect on the entIre relationship and how she has treated you. It will only happen when you totally cut contact with her.

I will pm you a link to my original post, when I get to my computer.

#14

ParanoidGirl

7 years ago

the irony is that i still want her to come back and i love her very very much ☹️

#15

7 years ago

No the Irony is you refuse to believe that this girl does not love you and you think its ok for her to treat you like **** come back into your life when shes ready, and all is forgiven

You have to want and believe you want better in order yo get better. Shes gone for the second time, you might as well face facts. The sooner you accept the fact that she only have you around until something better(in her eyes) comes along the better off you will be.

If you continue to be in denial about her then there is really nothing else for me to say, because your not listening to me anyway.

#16

ConfusednCrazy

6 years ago

I can relate-I can't help but text them-even if just a simple 'hey'. We've had argument upon argument where they continue to point out that they don't see a worth in having me around and even told me they tried to be nice and tried saying '**** off'. No matter what, I feel like they're my drug even though I know we're not right. I told them to block me before and delete me from their life and they did and I know if I ask again they will because they don't want the drama. For now, they just say a simple 'hey' back and a couple lines more and that's all the further it goes unless we fight again. I'm not sure why they haven't blocked me if I just annoy them. Every day it's like nothing happened after we fight. Sometimes being blocked turns the light off in your head and you feel able to move on because you know for sure they're done with you-so I get it, but be careful what you wish for when they do block you. You need to be strong and make that choice to say no to them by yourself. Stop giving them power.

#17

Movingon298

6 years ago

Got the same problem. Been through a couple of break ups with her. She now needs to not see me while she gets her head on straight. I told her to block me because I always reach out been reading a lot and not contacting her for a period of time seems like the answer. Either she will miss me enough after reflecting or decide it wasn't meant to be and I can't fix that. I tried deleting the contact but it's easy enough to put it back. I feel your struggle.

#18

Dizzyy

6 years ago

Yeah this same thing happened to me recently.her situation was different she was scared I was gonna hurt her so she told me we should stop talking but I didn't listen because I was really into her but one day I just woke up told her how I felt and she apologized and blocked me right away . I was hurt for about a week but I eventually moved on.

#19

Cris

6 years ago

Yes.. I am in the same boat as you. Your message has been a year. May I know how did you survive?

#20

KRC

6 years ago

I'm not the poster of this, but I'm in the same situation. I've begged my ex to block my number and Facebook profile, but he won't.
I just don't get it

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#21

Donny121

6 years ago

Its a power thing not blocking you, I was with an abusive girl and she always used to think she could stroll back into my life and message me, I told her I was done it didnt bother me anymore I was past the hurt and being walked all over. After she could see I wasnt interested she was saying block me please. Looking back I should of just blocked her but I loved I was doing her head in, I thought your feeling alittle bit of how I was feeling. I think about a month after she blocked me after she got no response from messages she sent. Never heard from her again thank god!

#22

MiserablyoK

5 years ago

Me. And I know I've been reading people's move on sentiments and blocking is drama and childish but I guess they don't really know what we are going through. Sometimes some battles are easier for some people while it is tedious for others. I pleaded to be blocked cos I know I'm capable of looking pathetic just tp fight for someone I love but I guess they don't care about that.

#23

Kimberley

5 years ago

I wish they would block me x

#24

Nito Vasquez

5 years ago

Me myself experienced this recently and it hurts like hell. I was hoping for her to just block me which I felt as a easier way to get over her and not reach out. I'm not blocked but my constant texting begging for forgiveness pushed her to the law. I wish this all just ends, my thoughts on myself is definitely not in a normal good space. She just manipulated me and left me with a broken heart. I'll get over it eventually, just wished eventually was now lol.

#25

KRC

5 years ago

I'm in the same place...and asking the same thing of someone. It's a bad head space to be in and the other person doesn't get how much we're hurting, or they just don't care.

#26

Kate

5 years ago

I totally get were you are coming from. Me and my ex just do not work, it's the same circle of events each time which always end in him ending it and be being devastated. Then a while will pass and he will text me again and it's like incompletely forget all the hurt and pain and I just fall back into the same trap. So it's just happened again and this time I'm in despair , usually I block him for a while until I heal but this time I just can't stop texting him. I don't have the will power anymore so I've asked him to block me from everything and never unblock me. People may think it's childish but if it's want you need to be ok and move on then why not. Least I know this way if I'm drunk one night and regrettably try reach out to him that he will never receive it anyways and reject me. Knowing I can't ever speak to him again even if I wanted to is better than seeing him online and being ignored.

#27

KRC

5 years ago

My ex did finally block me after a sobbing voicemail I left, but unblocked me after a month. Still won't respond to me though, so I asked him to block me again which he did. I feel like I'll never be over this

#28

Malik

5 years ago

Not blocking you means that she is still interested in you but doesnt have time to talk right now. You might be too pushy so she might have thought not to talk to you right now. If you need to test. Text her 'our story is not ended' and simply block her. She will definately try to approach you on other app or media you have added her. She will ask you to unblock her from where you have blocked her. So just unblock her but dont send unneccesary messages to her. Just wait. Good luck.

#29

Ex girl

5 years ago

Hey mate.i Just did.hope u are ok

#30

KRC

5 years ago

Not sure which one of us you're responding to, but I'm a little better. Still miss my ex, but I've stopped texting/calling. No idea if he's unblocked me. I'm just trying to believe there's a plan and God will point me in the right direction

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