How to make a facebook page a memorial page

How to make a facebook page a memorial page

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Memorial pages on Facebook allow like-minded users to gather in a virtual space to pay condolences and share memories in the honor of a deceased individual -- and there are two ways to create one. If the person of honor passed away with an active Facebook Timeline, close friends and family can complete a contact form requesting that Facebook investigate and approve the profile for memorialization. Any user can also create a new Facebook group or page -- with customized privacy settings and invitations for others to join -- that can then be used as a point of remembrance.

Memorialization Request

When a loved one passes, you can complete the Memorialization Request form (link in Resources) to ask Facebook to convert the person's personal profile to a memorial page. Facebook will then conduct an investigation using the proof of passing -- you are invited to submit the URL of a published obituary or news article referencing the death -- and complete the conversion to a tribute page. According to the form's options, anyone on the user's Friends list can request this investigation, including immediate and extended family or those who are considered non-family -- like a friend, co-worker or classmate.

Account Conversion

Once an account is memorialized, Facebook will implement privacy settings so only confirmed friends of the deceased user can see the profile or locate it in search results. All of the user's sensitive information -- contact data and past status updates, for example -- are removed. Friends and family can then continue leaving posts on the profile's Timeline and the memorialized account is locked from outside view -- in other words, no user who is not listed as a friend can log into it, tag it or post new content.

Create a Page or Group

In lieu of memorializing a current page, you can also create a new Facebook group or page with the purpose of making it a tribute to a deceased person. These are effective not only for honoring an individual who does not have an active Facebook profile, but also in a situation where you want to invite other users who are not currently listed as friends of the person who has passed. If you choose to memorialize an individual with a page or group, your first step is determining which will work best for your needs.

Creating a Page

Facebook pages -- as well as information and posts published on the page -- are completely public to all Facebook users and are designed to offer a large group of people a centralized point of communication. New posts appear in the news feeds of those who have liked it and page admins can track ongoing activity. To create one, click on the "Pages" header in the side menu and then click the "+ Create Page" button. Follow the prompts to enter information about the deceased individual, then invite friends to like it so others are encouraged to engage in the memorial.

Creating a Group

Groups provide a virtual space for smaller groups of people to communicate about the deceased individual and allow for additional privacy settings that cannot be implemented with a page. Like pages, posts are visible to those who have joined the conversation, but members must first be approved or added by other members. Members can then participate in group chats and share content -- like photos and group documents. To create a group, click the "Groups" header on the left side of your Facebook page and then click "Create Group" and follow the on-screen prompts.

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Whether you share posts on Facebook often, periodically, or not at all, you may wonder what happens to your account after you die.

Will it exist forever and ultimately cause confusion? Whose responsibility is it, if anyone’s, to notify your network and the world that you’re no longer living? 

Jump ahead to these sections: 

  • Step 1: Familiarize Yourself with Memorialization
  • Step 2: Go to Memorialization Settings in Settings
  • Step 3: Choose a Legacy Contact (or Become One)
  • Step 4: Clean Up the Account
  • Step 5: Serve as Legacy Contact
  • Requesting Memorialization on Behalf of Someone Else
  • Choosing to Delete a Facebook Account
  • Can You Un-Memorialize a Facebook Account?

Memorializing a Facebook account is a way to keep your account active after you die. Instead of your Facebook name as is, memorialization changes it to read “Remembering” plus your name. The name change makes it clear that you have passed to your Facebook friends and anyone searching for you.

Tip: If you are the executor for a deceased loved one, figuring out social media accounts and other aspects of handling their unfinished business can be overwhelming without a way to organize your process. We have a post-loss checklist that will help you ensure that your loved one's family, estate, and other affairs are taken care of.

How to make a facebook page a memorial page

Step 1: Familiarize Yourself With Memorialization

Once a Facebook account has been memorialized, it will not come up in ads, in suggested friends for “People You May Know”, or birthday notifications.

Keep in mind that it’s not possible to un-memorialize an account, which we describe in further detail later.  

Step 2: Go to Memorialization Settings in Settings

Under the “Settings” tab on Facebook, you will find “Memorialization Settings.”

In this section, you can familiarize yourself with memorialization, read frequently asked questions, and appoint a legacy contact. You can read more about how to create and update a legacy contact on Facebook in our guide.

Step 3: Choose a Legacy Contact (or Become One)

A legacy contact will not have total autonomy over your page’s content. A legacy contact is sort of an administrator to help other friends and loved ones keep your memory alive.

You may appoint someone on your friend list as a legacy contact at any time. They’ll be notified that you chose them. It’s not currently possible to add someone as a legacy contact if you aren’t friends on Facebook. 

What if you’re chosen as a legacy contact and don’t want to be one? Send your friend a message or talk to them in person. The two of you can come up with another friend capable of being a legacy contact or another solution.

Step 4: Clean Up the Account

You may already audit your social media accounts and check your friend list from time to time. Or you may choose to clean up your Facebook account as a precaution or “just in case.” If you’re not already doing this, try to block out time for an annual or semi-annual cleanup. 

You can also help out a parent or older relative who may be less familiar with social media.

During the cleanup process, you can add or remove friends, delete photos or pictures, and edit personal details.  It’s also a good time to choose a legacy contact if you have not already.

What if you want to remove something from an account that is already memorialized? You can remove certain content, but content that violates Facebook’s community standards.

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How to make a facebook page a memorial page

Step 5: Serve as Legacy Contact

If you’re a legacy contact and accept this responsibility, what can you do when someone dies? As a legacy contact, you’re able to:

  • Change the person's profile picture and cover photo.
  • Write a pinned post on the timeline.
  • Respond to new friend requests.
  • Change who can see and who can post tributes. Tributes are posts that add to the memorial of the person. 
  • Delete tribute posts.
  • Change who can see posts that your loved one is tagged in.
  • Remove tags of your loved one which someone else has posted.
  • If the account holder turned on timeline review, the legacy contact will be able to turn off the requirement to review posts and tags before they appear in the tributes section.

Requesting Memorialization on Behalf of Someone Else

If you notice a deceased friend or a loved one’s account is still active and hasn't been memorialized, you can make a request. Facebook won’t share the account login details with you, but they can add you as a legacy contact upon request. 

How is this done? First, you’ll have to submit proof that the person passed away.

If you choose to submit such a request, make sure that you also reach out to the person’s next of kin, if possible, to make sure that you’re the appropriate choice. Family members may wish to have the person’s account deleted instead, and it’s best to honor these wishes. 

Choosing to Delete a Facebook Account

How to make a facebook page a memorial page

When you pass away, you can opt for having your account automatically deleted. Instead of a page, your friends and family can instead create their own group to share memories. 

If you’re managing an account as a legacy contact and it becomes overwhelming, or there is some other reason you wish to delete an account, you can do so. You’ll have to contact Facebook and submit proof of your authority and relationship to the person, as well as an obituary or memorial letter about the person. 

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Can You Un-Memorialize a Facebook Account?

If for some reason your account or a loved one’s has been memorialized on accident, you should contact Facebook, first and foremost. Once an account has been memorialized, it is not typical to reverse this action unless there's a good reason. Due to heightened security and privacy measures, account hacking is less likely than before. 

After all, Facebook doesn’t even provide legacy contacts with the login info of the deceased person. If you want to share your Facebook password with a loved one after you die, we recommend using a password manager

Facebook is One Piece of Your Online Legacy 

A memorialized Facebook account is just one part of an online legacy. It’s likely that Google searches will yield other details about any person’s life. 

If you choose to memorialize a Facebook account, it may give you peace of mind to create a space for those in your network. They will likely have an easier time staying in touch, keeping the memory of the deceased alive, and leaning on one another in times of sorrow. 

Choosing to delete your account or a loved one’s instead is fine, too. Perhaps you found another solution for an online memorial, or don’t see the need for one. Memories of the deceased can live on just as vividly online as they can in the hearts and minds of those who love them. 

Before you memorialize or delete a loved one's account, you may want to consider preserving their digital photos. Read our guide on how to download all Facebook photos for more.


Sources

  1. “Memorialized Accounts.” Facebook Help Center. https://www.facebook.com/help/1506822589577997